Remembering the victims of 9.11.01; those who died and those who were left behind to mourn the losses.
“Just because I am not crying does not mean that there are not tears in my heart!”
Remembering those who have lost their dads and all the special men in their lives.
And to all Fathers who have lost a child…
Be patient with yourself…
Allow yourself time to grieve your loss…
You begin to start feeling like your’re doing OK and then a new wave of emotions hits you out of nowhere
Don’t beat yourself up because of how you are feeling or because you think that you should be over your grief by now.
Your grief and the relationship that you lost is unique to you…
Many will celebrate today but let’s take time to reach out to those who are hurting…
I know that Mother’s day is a day of celebration for so many, but for others and many of my friends this is a very painful and difficult day, remembering the pain of their loss.
For those who have lost a mom, child, aunt, sister, a grandmother, a “just like a mom,” a friend, a wife, and those struggling with infertility…
I pray for peace in your heart and comfort for your soul
Allow your tears to flow, when they come
Many people dread Mother’s Day, because it’s just hard to face the raw emotional pain of your loss and want the day to come and go as quickly as possible.
For others it may be a time of being still and reflection, remembering, missing and honoring your loved one.
And for some you’re kind of in the middle beyond the raw excruciating pain but not quite able to reflect and remember with joy.
Everyone is at a different stage in their grieving process, so don’t compare yourself to others; just feel how you feel
Joy will come again one day…
Do not sorrow, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.
Nehemiah 8:10 (NKJV)
Hold on tightly to God and allow Him to give you comfort in your despair and longing and receive the peace that only He can give.
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 14:27(NIV)
Take a moment to quietly reflect and remember
Be kind to yourself
Remember that God is with you always and He will never leave you.
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
Psalm 34:18 (NIV)
Blessed are those who mourn, for they WILL be comforted.
Matthew 5:4 (NIV)
Happy and Blessed Mother’s Day!
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I love chocolate, Sophie my Bichon Frise dog, Canadian chinese food, laughing, reading, french fries, learning new things and quiet time.
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